When you work your hardest and the boy who didn't finish two essays wins best student of the class.
We've all experienced jealous, and it's a difficulty and confusing predicament. Especially when it's jealousy of the success of someone you love and care about. Not only are you feeling this way, but you feel guilty for it as well. Jealous of boyfriends are even worst. And this how we're going to get through this together.
Jealous of a friends accomplishment
We've all had that moment when a friend wins something that you wanted, or gets into something that you weren't excepted into.
The first thing you need to do, is understand that it's okay to feel this way. It's human nature to fuel up jealousy and lust. It's Okay. Everyone had felt this way more than twice in their life.
[2] Understand that you did your best. You did the best you possibly could, and that's something you should be proud of. Don't be all negative and think 'I did my best, but he/she still wins'. Be proud of the fact that you worked toward something you wanted, you didn't just sit there and procrastinate. You're doing something with your life, you're now one step closer to self understatement than that person ever will be.
[1] List the things that you love about that person. List the things that they've done for you. Then, and only then will you feel truly happy for them, and enjoy their accomplishment without feeling disappointed in yourself.
Jealousy with boyfriend/ girlfriend
[1] Ask yourself why the heck are you jealousy. Are you jealous because you really love the person and don't want to lose them, or is it because you don't trust that jerk, and you know he's doing something?
[2] Don't try to hide your feelings of why you feel the way the do. When you realize what makes you feel this way. I don't know much about relationships so I can't really tell you what to do. Just be honest with yourself and figure your shit out!
[3] Plus, it's your boyfriend. You have whah that person doesn't. Chill.
Jealousy of a random stranger
We've all felt this way. Everyone. Don't lie. When that girl is rocking that dress that you want. And those heels. The wavy hair. Damn!
[1] What you need to do is understand that you too have great qualities. List the things that you like about yourself in your head. Think about it, everyone feels insecure. It's not just you who has flaws, that person that you feel jealous of.....has flaws too.
[2] Don't be jealous, because that person could be dealing with worst things than you are. They're life could be a living hell, that wavy hair don't mean shit.
Overall
listen to me. Yo boo. Listen to me. You need to know and understand your falls. That's the only way that that you can excerpt yourself, and want something else that someone has. That person will never have the hard work, and diligence that you put in everything you do.
You don't know that persons live, you don't know the shit they go through. Don't want/ be envious of something/ someone you know nothing about. Chill. Just chill. Eat some ice cream and chill.
